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⭐️ DON'T CRY IN AMERICA ⭐️ Buy Now on Amazon ⭐️

"... A tale of true grit and perseverance that is unlike any book you'll ever read."


A powerful story of resilience, hope, and the bonds that unite us.


Could you imagine being sent alone on an ocean liner at just ten years old for an eight-day journey at sea, with only the hope of seeing your family again one day? 


That's precisely what young Antonio Russo faces when he is placed on a ship in the Bay of Naples and sent from a small town in Italy into the abyss toward America, with nothing but the shirt on his back and a suitcase filled with salami and provolone cheese. 


Tony struggles to fit in and often descends into a path of destruction. He adopts a tough-guy persona, acts impulsively, and frequently gets into fights and brawls, which ultimately lands him not only in the hospital but also in trouble with the law. 


As fate would have it, he discovers the sport of wrestling, revealing a natural talent and a strong drive to excel, leading him to become one of America's winningest high school wrestling coaches. 


Just as Rocky is not merely a story about boxing, Don’t Cry in America is not simply a story about wrestling. While wrestling and Italian culture are interwoven throughout, this is an uplifting tale of resilience, hope, and the extraordinary yet complex bonds of family. 

Five Star ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Reviews for "Don't Cry in America"

"Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton’s memoir reads like a well-crafted novel that explores a young boy’s adventure and his struggles with immigration to finding a home in America. I loved how the authors articulate the theme of belonging, highlighting that Russo’s considerable pride was in belonging to a town, a neighborhood, and a group of friends who help each other. The theme of identity and the immigrant’s relentless struggle to achieve is skillfully explored in this captivating memoir. Russo’s love for wrestling becomes a symbol for fighting through hardship, both on the mat and in life. His stories of hardship—such as surviving bombings, near-death experiences, and family separations—offer powerful lessons about life and hope." –Ruffina Oserio, Readers' Favorite


    

"The memoir vividly recounts his struggles as an immigrant, from navigating cultural barriers to enduring loneliness and adversity. Yet, his discovery of wrestling becomes a metaphor for his life. It’s a sport that allows him to channel his aggression, find purpose, and ultimately thrive. The book is filled with cultural details, particularly the role of food in Italian-American life, which is a comforting thread throughout Antonio’s story. The inclusion of family recipes adds a personal touch, inviting readers to experience the flavors of his heritage. Written in a conversational, first-person narrative, the memoir captures Antonio’s charismatic storytelling style, making the reader feel as though they are sitting across from him, listening to his tales. The Italian dialogue, interspersed with English, adds depth to the narrative. Don’t Cry in America is a story of perseverance, family, and the human spirit. It is a must-read for anyone seeking inspiration, a deeper understanding of the immigrant experience, or simply a heartfelt story of triumph against the odds. Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton offer a tale of true grit and perseverance that is unlike any book you'll ever read." –Carol Thompson, Readers' Favorite


    

"Author team Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton have a wonderful synergy in how to balance a smooth, confident storytelling style with plenty of real details, and that makes for a rich, cinematic immigrant story full of hope, grit, and personal growth. There’s plenty to relate to in Tony’s story, whatever your background may be, but sports fans in particular will be enraptured by how wrestling becomes a symbolic and literal anchor for transformation.     

Anyone who’s ever fallen into a sporting or competitive hobby community is sure to understand his connection and drive, and the writing style flows naturally with honest and emotional prose that makes it feel like he’s talking to you. This is also layered with unforgettable cultural and familial detail so that you feel like you’re part of the tribe as events unfold, evoking all the classic underdog narratives while remaining deeply personal and unique." –K.C. Finn, Readers' Favorite

More by Tonya Russo Hamilton

"Wrestling with the Devil provided me with new insights on the life of all immigrants, but especially Italian immigrants. The struggle between maintaining the traditions and values that the older generation brought with them from Italy, while the younger generation learned how to be American teenagers and adults is felt as the reader enters the Russo home in Portland, Oregon. Antonio navigated that stage of life with risks and some rebellion, but his determination and deeply rooted values turned him from potential destruction just in time.


My heart broke as 10-year old Antonio was sent to America, alone. The desire for her child to have a chance at a better, more prosperous life was so powerful that it overcame his mother's need to keep a young son close at home. Such a sacrifice of hope - and with a happy ending. I had no interest in the sport of wrestling when I started the book, but I found myself caught up in the matches - I felt the "thrill of victory and the agony of defeat." Russo has written a book that satisfies my interest in all-things-Italian, while also touching the emotions that motherhood has unleashed in me, and perhaps even igniting a tiny spark of interest in wrestling.


Read Wrestling with the Devil and find yourself in the lush backyard vegetable garden in Portland, Oregon - or drinking the Russo family wine around the dining table - you'll feel the anguish of a mother saying good-bye to her young son, and the fear of the little boy alone and sick on a ship to a new land. You'll get beat up along with Tony on the wrestling mat, and then feel the pride of winning. And you will feel the love of generations of the Russo family and the bonds that distance would not break." —Review from Amazon


"Wrestling with the Devil is an entrancing tale of perseverance, hard work and the pursuit of the American Dream. My reverie was broken only by surges of inspiration to make the best out of my life.''   —Jason Quick, The Oregonian


"This work is an important contribution to the world of wrestling and a must-read for enthusiasts of the sport."   —Curley Culp, Professional Football Player, NCAA Wrestling Champion, 1967 Arizona State University


"This wonderful book captures the whole of the immigrant experience in America, the bravado, the ingenuity, the struggle for survival, and most of all, the grace and strength of the Italian-American family.  Oral history at its most thrilling." —Merridawn Duckler, Senior Fellow, The Attic Institute  Portland, Oregon

"An enchanting blend of words and images that will kindle a child's imagination and touch the hearts of grown-up readers -- especially if their roots stretch back to a family garden. In recounting the steps of growing tomatoes (the pomodori of the title), this story captures the magical love that brings generations together to nurture and celebrate the cycle of life. The whimsical illustrations evoke an Italy that lives on in cherished memories. A charming book that makes the soul smile!" —Dianne Hales, Author; La Bella Lingua, and Mona Lisa: A Life Discovered​


"I was excited to have the opportunity to preview Tino and the Pomodori, an upcoming children's title from Gemelli Press. In this picture book, Tonya Russo Hamilton tells the story of her father as a young boy in Italy, anticipating his favorite time of the year: the tomato (pomodori) harvest. This book has everything I look for in a great children's title. The watercolor illustrations are stunning and keep the reader's attention. The story is simple, sweet, and reads easily. Children will pick up Italian words and phrases, learn about Italian culture, and have a subtle science lesson in the life cycle of the tomato plant.


My 5-year-old connected with the story right away. She made me pause a few pages in to get her a snack of fresh tomatoes (thankfully we had some in the fridge!), which she happily ate during the rest of the book. There is a healthy dose of Italian language in Tino and the Pomodori. The switches between English and Italian occur naturally. Translations are obvious. There's a glossary of terms in the back just in case, though I felt a pronunciation guide for anyone who might need it would have been helpful, too. My daughter is used to her books being in either English or Italian, not both. I was surprised by how excited she was to hear both languages in one book - she actually commented on that. I especially appreciated the focus on Italy's traditional food culture of eating fresh, local ingredients prepared simply. I was reminded of walking through my neighbors' fields as a kid and enjoying with them a late, leisurely meal of similar foods.


I'm not sure how much longer the picture book stage will last in our household, but Tino and the Pomodori is going to have a place on our shelf." —Review from Amazon

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